Anyway, I checked out the links, the kits and some discussion and already purchased what I wanted. I went into my local music store and pieced together a kit. Here is my letter to my musician buddy who talked me into playing again:
My man,
I've already purchased my cocktail kit. And, is it fine. I thought
about it, and then went to American Music in Fremont. I had a good
talk with a young guy there, Sean, who was REALLY into my project and
was familiar with cocktail drums. What I did is piece together a kit
from stuff they had there. Amazing stuff that were odds and ends due to
returns and stuff.
I got top equipment. Just check out this snare: It is a Yamaha
Absolute maple Peter Erskine - retails for $679

Dude - I also got a matching Yamaha Absolute maple kick drum on its own
DW stand - 15 inch. The bass pedal is so sweet, too. It's blue but I never heard of the company. It is very smooth and cheap - but works...well.
The snare mounts on a stand with a tom and cymbals. I got a fine
Ludwig 8 inch tom with special 'RIMS' hardware and also cymbals I
picked out. I couldn't believe my ears, but I actually loved this
ride/crash cymbal I got made in China called 'STAGG.' But it is NICE. It is thin so that it will 'crash' without much effort and has a decent ride sound. I also got a set of hit-hats from the same company.
Sweet. Heavy duty Tama stand holds all this. The bass sits on the floor in
its own rack. The drums are all natural maple finish. Oh lord it's
sweet.
Set me back one grand. $1,000.
The nice thing about this set-up is that I can add to it and even sit
down if I wanted. I'm not committed to standing although I really like
the idea and will play it that way.
I think I did real well considering I got a bass pedal and cymbals for
under a grand. And especially because of that snare - concert quality.
Just great.